I was a Mom Judger. babysitter care.com childcare workingmom workingparent Nov 16, 2023

 

I confess, I was a mom judger. 

Not too long ago, in what I now realize was an attempt to rationalize my own parenting choices, I totally judged another mom for focusing seemingly too much on the work she enjoyed and herself.

There I said it, guilty as charged.  Since then,...

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Who's in your in-home caregiver rolodex?! babysitter care.com childcare hire a caregiver hire a nanny parent stress Oct 03, 2022

I’m in my 40’s reflecting back on 8 years of hiring babysitters and nannies.  It’s had its ups and downs, and there were many lessons I learned along the way.  One of those hard and humbling lessons was that our family basically needs a cued up and ready rolodex of...

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What DOES the parent-nanny population look like?! care.com nanny hire nanny search sittercity.com Apr 21, 2022

As many of you know, I stepped away from an academic research position a few years back to buckle down as primary parent of 2 small kids at home.  That didn't stop my brain from reaching into tough psycho-social problems needing to be solved.

One of those big problems centers around the...

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Do Background Checks and Listen do Your Gut! care.com childcare hire a nanny momproject momselfcare nanny search workingmom workingparent Apr 05, 2022

By now, most folks following the Same Team community know I have deep respect for the work of nannies and have acknowledged how much our family has benefitted from working with nannies.  Inside my online course , I outline Nanny Industry Standards, the right way to come to a pay range,...

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No More Wild Wild West Nanny searches! care.com childcare hire a nanny momproject nanny workingmom Mar 22, 2022

You may be feeling like a tired, bewildered tumbleweed blowing through the mesa of online nanny search sites… but do not fret.  Same Team is here!  If you haven’t enrolled in our free nanny search + hire tips workshop what are you waiting for??

Parents coming out of...

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The Multiple Narratives among Nannies and Parents-Part 1 care.com childcare hire a nanny nanny nanny search parenting workingparent Jan 21, 2022

When I started the Same Team online course project roughly a year ago now, I came at the project through the parent lens.  I had heard over and over the online nanny search fails and believed that parents were generally conducting their searches the right way.  As I reflected on my own...

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The Big Hairy Secret Among Working Moms care.com childcare momproject momselfcare workingmom Jan 14, 2022

There’s a hush-hush secret that has been passed around on playgrounds and by the water cooler for many working mothers: it’s often easier to go to our work-outside-the-home jobs versus our mom jobs inside the home.  I remember when I finally took the leap to work with a nanny...

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Welcome to the Parent/Nanny Same Team Way care.com sittercity.com Jan 03, 2022

Greetings!  I am so excited to share my background in working with nannies and babysitters for 7+ years with you.  I am also a nurse, researcher, and life-long caregiver who saw numerous parent-nanny fails unfolding over and over on social media.  I kept thinking... there has to be...

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